I'm so glad that you got your period and that all is well.
I'm also really happy to hear that your boyfriend accepts your request to wait on having sex again until you are more comfortable with it. And it is good to know that when you did have sex, you were very careful about the condom, etc.
Realistically, though, how long would you like to wait? Two months? Six months? A year? Even at 16 or 17 you are going to worry about pregnancy, and I don't see you waiting THAT long with a boyfriend you obviously care about.
I'm not sure what you mean about birth control "mucking up" your systems until you're properly developed. Can you tell me more about that? Who told you that?
It may be that the best thing for you to do is -- when you decide to be sexually active again -- to find a doctor you can talk to about this, and hear her opinions about birth control and how it would affect you. Would you be able to do that?
Again, so happy that all is well this time. Let's figure out how to keep you "over the moon" happy!
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ScaredEasily,
I'm so glad that you got your period and that all is well.
I'm also really happy to hear that your boyfriend accepts your request to wait on having sex again until you are more comfortable with it. And it is good to know that when you did have sex, you were very careful about the condom, etc.
Realistically, though, how long would you like to wait? Two months? Six months? A year? Even at 16 or 17 you are going to worry about pregnancy, and I don't see you waiting THAT long with a boyfriend you obviously care about.
I'm not sure what you mean about birth control "mucking up" your systems until you're properly developed. Can you tell me more about that? Who told you that?
It may be that the best thing for you to do is -- when you decide to be sexually active again -- to find a doctor you can talk to about this, and hear her opinions about birth control and how it would affect you. Would you be able to do that?
Again, so happy that all is well this time. Let's figure out how to keep you "over the moon" happy!
November 2, 2009 - 8:55amThis Comment
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