1. According to most human sexuality research, human intercourse is actually about 2 minutes, not including fore-play and other activities, but the actual penetration of penis-to-vagina is just a few minutes.
2. I am not sure if your boyfriend is being "selfish", but what I do know is he is "making you" do anything you don't want to do, or you do not feel happy, satisfied, pleasure and joy when being physically intimate with him...then it is time for a talk about what you DO want out of a healthy sexual relationship.
If you are able to have an orgasm in just minutes...most women would be astounded and want to know your secrets! I hope you feel empowered in your relationship that you can tell your boyfriend "no" that you do not feel like giving oral sex or anything else.
Are you interested in resources on how to have a healthy sexual relationship? I'm just curious about what you are wanting, because it seems as though you are wondering what is wrong with him and putting all the blame on him...when it does not sound like you two are doing or have the most basic and fundamental aspect that is required of a healthy sexual relationship: open, honest communication, mutual trust, respect and compromise.
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Here are my thoughts/information for you:
1. According to most human sexuality research, human intercourse is actually about 2 minutes, not including fore-play and other activities, but the actual penetration of penis-to-vagina is just a few minutes.
2. I am not sure if your boyfriend is being "selfish", but what I do know is he is "making you" do anything you don't want to do, or you do not feel happy, satisfied, pleasure and joy when being physically intimate with him...then it is time for a talk about what you DO want out of a healthy sexual relationship.
If you are able to have an orgasm in just minutes...most women would be astounded and want to know your secrets! I hope you feel empowered in your relationship that you can tell your boyfriend "no" that you do not feel like giving oral sex or anything else.
Are you interested in resources on how to have a healthy sexual relationship? I'm just curious about what you are wanting, because it seems as though you are wondering what is wrong with him and putting all the blame on him...when it does not sound like you two are doing or have the most basic and fundamental aspect that is required of a healthy sexual relationship: open, honest communication, mutual trust, respect and compromise.
November 1, 2009 - 9:01pmThis Comment
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