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I like a great sex toy as much as the next woman but not something about receiving it as a birthday gift would rub me the wrong way--no pun intended.

Don't return it. Give it a go, you may change your mind about what kind of gift it was. BUT I can see how this would upset you seeing as I wouldn't know what to tell my mother when she asked what my husband got me for my birthday-- thinking about it actually makes me cringe and laugh at the same time.

In your boyfriends' defense-- men have a strange way of thinking. You mentioning the rabbit a few days before your birthday translated as "I saw the greatest thing ever and I want it!" Don't hold it against him. If you really don't want this to happen again let him know how you appreciate that he was listening but a rabbit was not really what you were expecting for your birthday.

Selfishly, I enjoy gifts on special occasions that only I can use-- meaning nobody else will enjoy it, not even my husband. A sex toy does not fall under that category so would I be disappointed? A little. Would I enjoy it anyway? Heck yeah.