It most likely does. There are other frustrating factors that influence the way I feel. For example, he has a friend that he pays to come over and do things around the house a few times a week. He wants me to make meals for both of them when he comes over. He will take the friend out to lunch once a week in addition, and also pay for him to go to the gym with him. It's nothing for my b-f to drop $1,200 on a different set of tires for his hobby car, just because he didn't like the other tires anymore. Perhaps I am a bit jealous because I see him putting all this money into everything else, but going out to eat seems like I'm asking for a brand new car. In addition, he has a 40 year old brother who will come over a few times a week to do his laundry and help himself to whatever food we have. My b-f will even go so far as to ask me to make them something to eat. I guess I just feel disrespected, like his money is no big deal when it comes to others, but a huge point of contention with me. Does it seems like it is unfair of me to think this way?
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It most likely does. There are other frustrating factors that influence the way I feel. For example, he has a friend that he pays to come over and do things around the house a few times a week. He wants me to make meals for both of them when he comes over. He will take the friend out to lunch once a week in addition, and also pay for him to go to the gym with him. It's nothing for my b-f to drop $1,200 on a different set of tires for his hobby car, just because he didn't like the other tires anymore. Perhaps I am a bit jealous because I see him putting all this money into everything else, but going out to eat seems like I'm asking for a brand new car. In addition, he has a 40 year old brother who will come over a few times a week to do his laundry and help himself to whatever food we have. My b-f will even go so far as to ask me to make them something to eat. I guess I just feel disrespected, like his money is no big deal when it comes to others, but a huge point of contention with me. Does it seems like it is unfair of me to think this way?
November 14, 2009 - 8:14amThis Comment
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