Hi Diane and Annette - I'm glad we're having this dialogue, as I think it's really important. The "Secret" movement Annette referred to has indeed caused a lot of misunderstandings as well as needless and unfair guilt for many people, including a lot of healthy people dealing with difficult circumstances like job loss.
One point I wanted to make is I think it's important to recognize when you're around influences that can be harmful to your recovery, and to choose to stay away from them. I applaud Annette for recognizing that she was disturbed by what she read and speaking out about it. In my own case I was very disturbed by the negative environment in the initial oncology practice that treated me, and even though it was disruptive I found another practice with a stronger focus on healing and wellness. It's made an incredible difference to now have a team that's working for my best interests and has a positive attitude.
Survival is tough enough to begin with, and I definitely appreciate the opportunity to have these discussions and explore ways we can help each other succeed.
Thank you both,
Pat
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Hi Diane and Annette - I'm glad we're having this dialogue, as I think it's really important. The "Secret" movement Annette referred to has indeed caused a lot of misunderstandings as well as needless and unfair guilt for many people, including a lot of healthy people dealing with difficult circumstances like job loss.
One point I wanted to make is I think it's important to recognize when you're around influences that can be harmful to your recovery, and to choose to stay away from them. I applaud Annette for recognizing that she was disturbed by what she read and speaking out about it. In my own case I was very disturbed by the negative environment in the initial oncology practice that treated me, and even though it was disruptive I found another practice with a stronger focus on healing and wellness. It's made an incredible difference to now have a team that's working for my best interests and has a positive attitude.
Survival is tough enough to begin with, and I definitely appreciate the opportunity to have these discussions and explore ways we can help each other succeed.
November 23, 2009 - 5:56pmThank you both,
Pat
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