Thank you Diane. But I must admit that I am a bit scared of going back home in a week. Seems like being there without supprotive friends and family puts us into these depressive moods and like the articles say, these depressive moods are contagious. I told about this to my husband and we are going to try to come back here as soon as we can. He even said today that he is feeling so much better, like a completely different person and that back home he was full of these irrational fears, scary dreams. We found a buyer for our property and found a much smaller place in the town where we live now and are busy working on getting a new place in the new area which is closer to this mountain place where we have lots of friends so we can easily drive here and also have friends come visit us. Also as I wrote before the new place where we are moving has a much warmer culture and we speak the local langague.