Hi lonesome1 - As I read through your comments I kept trying to figure out what you were asking, and then got to the part where you said you really didn't know what you were asking. Perhaps you needed an opportunity to vent, and to get your thoughts and feelings out and in writing. Have things become clearer for you since you wrote this, or have they become more muddled?
You said "I can't imagine what I would do if I were without him" but you've provided no reasons why you would want to stay, and a whole lot of reasons why this relationship, in your very own words, is unhealthy.
As far as insight, you've provided a lot of insight into this situation with your own words. They include:
- unhealthy relationship
- crude language
- no longer share intimacy
- wasn't honest
- shifting blame
You are the only one who can decide whether staying in this relationship is the right thing to do or not. It might help to go back and read your comments again as if you were an outside third party. What do YOU think this woman should do?
Good luck to you. I hope you will let us know what you decide to do.
Take good care,
Pat
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Hi lonesome1 - As I read through your comments I kept trying to figure out what you were asking, and then got to the part where you said you really didn't know what you were asking. Perhaps you needed an opportunity to vent, and to get your thoughts and feelings out and in writing. Have things become clearer for you since you wrote this, or have they become more muddled?
You said "I can't imagine what I would do if I were without him" but you've provided no reasons why you would want to stay, and a whole lot of reasons why this relationship, in your very own words, is unhealthy.
As far as insight, you've provided a lot of insight into this situation with your own words. They include:
- unhealthy relationship
- crude language
- no longer share intimacy
- wasn't honest
- shifting blame
You are the only one who can decide whether staying in this relationship is the right thing to do or not. It might help to go back and read your comments again as if you were an outside third party. What do YOU think this woman should do?
Good luck to you. I hope you will let us know what you decide to do.
December 4, 2009 - 1:26pmTake good care,
Pat
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