I'm currently going through the same problem with my boyfriend. I've been with him two years and the sex was Amazing and now the last couple of months it's been hit and miss and his excuse is uni work, tired ect. I've explained to him how worthless it makes me feel so then we will go through a good stage again (to keep me happy obviously) and then we will go through a no sex stage again. It messes with my head and feelings. It makes me feel like im the one in the wrong for wanting it. I know he loves me, but now I feel like he's just too settled with me and just wants me for security. Our relationship revolves around his life.
I'm in two minds to leave him, because i love him and I can't stand the thought of being without him. But I also can't stand the way he makes me feel when he doesn't want me.
Totally agree with you about the media. It's never heard of men not wanting it but since reading this thread it obviously happens alot.
Hope you feel better soon.
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I'm currently going through the same problem with my boyfriend. I've been with him two years and the sex was Amazing and now the last couple of months it's been hit and miss and his excuse is uni work, tired ect. I've explained to him how worthless it makes me feel so then we will go through a good stage again (to keep me happy obviously) and then we will go through a no sex stage again. It messes with my head and feelings. It makes me feel like im the one in the wrong for wanting it. I know he loves me, but now I feel like he's just too settled with me and just wants me for security. Our relationship revolves around his life.
I'm in two minds to leave him, because i love him and I can't stand the thought of being without him. But I also can't stand the way he makes me feel when he doesn't want me.
Totally agree with you about the media. It's never heard of men not wanting it but since reading this thread it obviously happens alot.
March 23, 2015 - 3:39pmHope you feel better soon.
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