Wow it's crazy that someone else is going through what I am going through in my relationship. I've basically stopped asking for sex and started pretending not to want it. My boyfriend is a firefighter and sees alot of crazy stuff everyday and always say he's tired but it's so frustrating because I'm a very sexual person. So when he says I can't wait to see you and cuddle that's just it we cuddle and no sex at all. And then of course he gets irritated because I toss and turn all night because I have so much trouble trying to sleep because I'm sooo used to having sex and falling asleep. It makes me feel so unwanted and unattractive. He actually scheduled a day to have sex with me and the he didn't even make sure I had an orgasm and it was over in minutes we hadn't had sex in a month. I was so mad but of course I couldn't say anything. When we talk about relationships I noticed that all of his previous girlfriends cheated on him, probably because of the same reason. And he doesn't masturbate so maybe he just isn't a sexual person. But I am and I need sex for my sanity. Usually I have to beat my boyfriend off with a stick I've never had this problem before. And I'm getting very tempted to have sex with someone else. I just need to have that intimacy. And I haven't had a real orgasm for months now other than a sex toy and I don't know if I can take it anymore. He admits that he knows he sucks at sex but he should be trying to get better. I'm very clean, keep the hedges trimmed and can get with it if you know what I mean so I don't think it's necessarily just a "me" issue. What to do???
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Wow it's crazy that someone else is going through what I am going through in my relationship. I've basically stopped asking for sex and started pretending not to want it. My boyfriend is a firefighter and sees alot of crazy stuff everyday and always say he's tired but it's so frustrating because I'm a very sexual person. So when he says I can't wait to see you and cuddle that's just it we cuddle and no sex at all. And then of course he gets irritated because I toss and turn all night because I have so much trouble trying to sleep because I'm sooo used to having sex and falling asleep. It makes me feel so unwanted and unattractive. He actually scheduled a day to have sex with me and the he didn't even make sure I had an orgasm and it was over in minutes we hadn't had sex in a month. I was so mad but of course I couldn't say anything. When we talk about relationships I noticed that all of his previous girlfriends cheated on him, probably because of the same reason. And he doesn't masturbate so maybe he just isn't a sexual person. But I am and I need sex for my sanity. Usually I have to beat my boyfriend off with a stick I've never had this problem before. And I'm getting very tempted to have sex with someone else. I just need to have that intimacy. And I haven't had a real orgasm for months now other than a sex toy and I don't know if I can take it anymore. He admits that he knows he sucks at sex but he should be trying to get better. I'm very clean, keep the hedges trimmed and can get with it if you know what I mean so I don't think it's necessarily just a "me" issue. What to do???
April 16, 2015 - 9:09amThis Comment
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