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I'm not entirely sure on what's going on with him, but maybe you should (if you haven't already) being more assertive in bed. He might feel like he's doing a lot of the work to please you.

You could try being more aggressive in bed with him. Instead of letting him make sure he pleases you, you could make sure you please him just once to see how it goes.

I know guys can feel a bit overwhelmed sometimes that they have to satisfy their partners, almost to the point where it can feel like a chore, so turning the tables on him every once in a while might mix things up just enough for him.

As for how aggressive you should be since I'm sure you might be wondering, I honestly can't say. Depends what your both comfortable with and how far your willing to go out your comfort zone.

Since you didn't say anything about him being stressed or just tired from work, this is really all I can say. But before that, try talking to him. He might try to avoid the topic or something but at least try because you never really know, maybe he's itching to get something off his chest.