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My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years and we use to have sex multiple times a week for almost the whole time we've been together. But within the last probably 5-6 months, I have to bring it up or initiate it and it feels like he only does it because he thinks he has to. He said when I ask i make him feel pressured and he told me to just let it happen. I've stopped bringing it up for like the past 2 months but nothing happens. He masturbates frequently, even on days we were together and could've had sex. It doesn't bother me that he masturbates, i just don't like how it seems like he'd rather watch a video and use his hand then to have sex with me. He doesn't even get into it anymore. He doesn't try to please me as much or anything, I play with him, I get a little but then he goes straight for it and that's it. Does he not get attracted by me anymore? I try to be romantic and sexy, kiss his neck, try to play with him to turn him on but it's always "I don't feel like it right now, I'm not in the mood, I'm tired" it hurts when it's turned down all the time and then like he doesn't even enjoy it