Communication is key here. Clearly, you are trying to tell him how you are feeling and you are not happy with the outcome of his communication technique. Remember men see 'we need to talk' as an instant mechanism for RUN!
I think what you should try is get out of the house and go to dinner or something. Pick somewhere where it is only you and him (and you must talk). This is a sneaky way of trying to get communication started without distractions. Pick a place where it will not be too crowded (i.e. no sports bar or a place where televisions are plastered everywhere) . Now, that you both are in a comfort zone where talking is necessary, tell him how you are feeling. This may help break the communication gap.
Let us know if this helps. Trying to get him to open up will help this situation. Keep us updated!
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Hi anonymous,
I am so sorry about you situation. Hang in there.
Communication is key here. Clearly, you are trying to tell him how you are feeling and you are not happy with the outcome of his communication technique. Remember men see 'we need to talk' as an instant mechanism for RUN!
I think what you should try is get out of the house and go to dinner or something. Pick somewhere where it is only you and him (and you must talk). This is a sneaky way of trying to get communication started without distractions. Pick a place where it will not be too crowded (i.e. no sports bar or a place where televisions are plastered everywhere) . Now, that you both are in a comfort zone where talking is necessary, tell him how you are feeling. This may help break the communication gap.
Let us know if this helps. Trying to get him to open up will help this situation. Keep us updated!
December 20, 2009 - 11:36amThis Comment
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