I'm so glad things are getting some better for you. You were in a rough patch when you first wrote us.
I would like to point out that in your first letter, you were trying to figure out what was wrong with YOU -- starving yourself, dressing differently, and trying to do anything possible to "fix" whatever was wrong. And it turns out the problem was with HIM -- not you. You need to trust your instincts about this in the future. Don't automatically decide that if something is wrong, it must be your fault. To be successful, a married couple has to be able to talk about anything. Otherwise, people can just be miserable without knowing how to fix it, like you were.
What "supplements" is he taking that is making his hormones be not stable? Is he using steroids? If so, does he know how harmful the long-term effects on his body could be?
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Broken,
I'm so glad things are getting some better for you. You were in a rough patch when you first wrote us.
I would like to point out that in your first letter, you were trying to figure out what was wrong with YOU -- starving yourself, dressing differently, and trying to do anything possible to "fix" whatever was wrong. And it turns out the problem was with HIM -- not you. You need to trust your instincts about this in the future. Don't automatically decide that if something is wrong, it must be your fault. To be successful, a married couple has to be able to talk about anything. Otherwise, people can just be miserable without knowing how to fix it, like you were.
What "supplements" is he taking that is making his hormones be not stable? Is he using steroids? If so, does he know how harmful the long-term effects on his body could be?
December 29, 2009 - 7:57amThis Comment
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