I'm sorry you find yourself in this situation. The truth is you both did something very shady-- love your partner or not, both of you are grown up enough to know how to put an end to a relationship prior to moving onto another.
With that being said, now that you are involved with this other man who has a girlfriend, being jealous and hurt is a very normal feeling but also one which you, as a woman also in a relationship, cannot really judge him or demand anything at this point. Have a talk with him only if you are ready and willing to move on from your boyfriend and let the one who you truly have feelings for know that you are done with your boyfriend and ready to take your relationship with him further if he is. But ONLY if he is. Otherwise, you will move on with your life by yourself.
Even if he chooses not to leave his live-in girlfriend I definitely think it's time for you to move on from your relationship with your boyfriend.
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blh2009.
I'm sorry you find yourself in this situation. The truth is you both did something very shady-- love your partner or not, both of you are grown up enough to know how to put an end to a relationship prior to moving onto another.
With that being said, now that you are involved with this other man who has a girlfriend, being jealous and hurt is a very normal feeling but also one which you, as a woman also in a relationship, cannot really judge him or demand anything at this point. Have a talk with him only if you are ready and willing to move on from your boyfriend and let the one who you truly have feelings for know that you are done with your boyfriend and ready to take your relationship with him further if he is. But ONLY if he is. Otherwise, you will move on with your life by yourself.
Even if he chooses not to leave his live-in girlfriend I definitely think it's time for you to move on from your relationship with your boyfriend.
December 22, 2009 - 5:45amThis Comment
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