Actually I am not still in the relationship with the other man. He went back to his live-in, and has not really given me much of an explanation about why he went back so soon(like two days later). He did not give me a chance to end my other relationship. I accused him of playing a game with me and lying. I was just so hurt. At that time I did not know if was my pride, or my feelings for him. But as time goes on, I realiZe that I obviously did and do really care for him. I just do not understand how someone can express thier feelings so very much, and go as far as to tell me he is falling for me, go out of his way to see me, even go as far as to make future plans and I am in them. He told his son, daughter, father, stepmom, and co-workers about me, and was looking forward to me meeting all of them. But he wanted to wait until he had moved out.
He mentioned in a text to me after he was put out of the house...."If your intentions were that you and I were going to be together then you would not have had ?>>: at your home, and you would have been thier for me". Could this be the reason he walked away from what we had? Or he just cared about her more than he wanted to admit?
And as far as my relationship now, I rarely see my boyfriend since this affair that I had. We seem more like freinds, and see one another occaisionally, but talk daily. His depression and some other issues have left me very isolated and down. This was going on before I started to see this other person.
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Actually I am not still in the relationship with the other man. He went back to his live-in, and has not really given me much of an explanation about why he went back so soon(like two days later). He did not give me a chance to end my other relationship. I accused him of playing a game with me and lying. I was just so hurt. At that time I did not know if was my pride, or my feelings for him. But as time goes on, I realiZe that I obviously did and do really care for him. I just do not understand how someone can express thier feelings so very much, and go as far as to tell me he is falling for me, go out of his way to see me, even go as far as to make future plans and I am in them. He told his son, daughter, father, stepmom, and co-workers about me, and was looking forward to me meeting all of them. But he wanted to wait until he had moved out.
December 22, 2009 - 8:00amHe mentioned in a text to me after he was put out of the house...."If your intentions were that you and I were going to be together then you would not have had ?>>: at your home, and you would have been thier for me". Could this be the reason he walked away from what we had? Or he just cared about her more than he wanted to admit?
And as far as my relationship now, I rarely see my boyfriend since this affair that I had. We seem more like freinds, and see one another occaisionally, but talk daily. His depression and some other issues have left me very isolated and down. This was going on before I started to see this other person.
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