Hello everyone,
can anybody help me PLEASE!!!
i have been with my boyffirnd for about 3 years now, im 18 and he is about to be 21, in the beggining of our relationship everything was fun and the sex was about 2-3 times a day, i noticed as pretty much a year goes by we started having sex about 3-4 times a week, then it went to 1-2 times a week, we moved in with eachother from the begining so it cant be that, but anyways another couple months go by and i pretty much have to beg him for sex, and im starting to think hes doing it out of pitty, not that you need to know but he used to last really long in the begining but as time goes on he stops lasting as long.. and i mean a DRASTIC change, i try to make him happy by giving oral , but when that happens he says "oh ill get you back later" that means im not getting any. i mean we have been going through alot of stress lately but thats not whats making his sex drive go down because he still wants oral but not sex, i got so paranoid about it that i was making sure down below was squeky clean all day, im talking a few showers a day because i cant figure out the problem, that didnt work so i tried being more sexy, that didnt work either, so now i dont even ask for it hoping that will make him want it, but no it didnt work, now when i do get it, its not even long enough for me to get pleasure, it sucks because we have been arguing alot more lately, and it seems like hes getting bored with me, he tells me he loves me and theres nothing wrong, but i thought guys were supposed to like to have sex, i dont know what to do and its killing me, what do i do to make him want me again!!!! it seems like he doesnt even want to be around me, hes become lazy, boring and worst part is the no sex part, and just like a man he never wants to talk about it, what the hell should i do, can someone please help me here!! anyone!!
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Hello everyone,
August 21, 2010 - 2:50amcan anybody help me PLEASE!!!
i have been with my boyffirnd for about 3 years now, im 18 and he is about to be 21, in the beggining of our relationship everything was fun and the sex was about 2-3 times a day, i noticed as pretty much a year goes by we started having sex about 3-4 times a week, then it went to 1-2 times a week, we moved in with eachother from the begining so it cant be that, but anyways another couple months go by and i pretty much have to beg him for sex, and im starting to think hes doing it out of pitty, not that you need to know but he used to last really long in the begining but as time goes on he stops lasting as long.. and i mean a DRASTIC change, i try to make him happy by giving oral , but when that happens he says "oh ill get you back later" that means im not getting any. i mean we have been going through alot of stress lately but thats not whats making his sex drive go down because he still wants oral but not sex, i got so paranoid about it that i was making sure down below was squeky clean all day, im talking a few showers a day because i cant figure out the problem, that didnt work so i tried being more sexy, that didnt work either, so now i dont even ask for it hoping that will make him want it, but no it didnt work, now when i do get it, its not even long enough for me to get pleasure, it sucks because we have been arguing alot more lately, and it seems like hes getting bored with me, he tells me he loves me and theres nothing wrong, but i thought guys were supposed to like to have sex, i dont know what to do and its killing me, what do i do to make him want me again!!!! it seems like he doesnt even want to be around me, hes become lazy, boring and worst part is the no sex part, and just like a man he never wants to talk about it, what the hell should i do, can someone please help me here!! anyone!!
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