After reading your post, I would agree with Rosa == it feels like something else is going on here. Could he be depressed? Are things okay between the two of you otherwise? Do you go out and have fun?
Is his job going ok, or school if he is a student? Have there been recent stresses in his life? Or in yours that he may be reacting to?
To answer your question, though, no, it's not weird to have very little sex -- if neither partner is interested or if that's the way both prefer. People are different, and so is the frequency of sexual intercourse. It's also natural to have more sex in the beginning stages of a relationship than later, when the relationship is not so new and other parts of life intrude.
In otherwords, let's look at the whole picture. What else could be going on here that is hurting your boyfriend's libido? Do you have any idea?
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Hi, Anon,
After reading your post, I would agree with Rosa == it feels like something else is going on here. Could he be depressed? Are things okay between the two of you otherwise? Do you go out and have fun?
Is his job going ok, or school if he is a student? Have there been recent stresses in his life? Or in yours that he may be reacting to?
To answer your question, though, no, it's not weird to have very little sex -- if neither partner is interested or if that's the way both prefer. People are different, and so is the frequency of sexual intercourse. It's also natural to have more sex in the beginning stages of a relationship than later, when the relationship is not so new and other parts of life intrude.
In otherwords, let's look at the whole picture. What else could be going on here that is hurting your boyfriend's libido? Do you have any idea?
January 7, 2010 - 8:28amThis Comment
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