After reading your post, I think you should re-read it to yourself and the answer is clear. Although you are not together you still have feelings for this man. I know that you're trying to help him out but for YOUR well-being you have to let him go completely. There is no way that by having him stay with you you can let these feelings go, sadly.
If he ogles over other women, it's pig-ish in my opinion for him to express this to you as if you were one of his buddies. But then again, this should be a clear sign that he has moved on and you two are now on separate pages. I am truly sorry that your emotions are being played with but it's time to get him to be independent and move along without your help. There should be no reason for you to be going through this right now, one day you'll find yourself a man who truly values you and doesn't use you after a break-up. Once a man is gone from your life if there are no children involved my personal opinion is that the string should be cut completely.
Good Luck to you, I know you were trying to help him but now it's time to help yourself.
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Dear self-esteem junkie,
After reading your post, I think you should re-read it to yourself and the answer is clear. Although you are not together you still have feelings for this man. I know that you're trying to help him out but for YOUR well-being you have to let him go completely. There is no way that by having him stay with you you can let these feelings go, sadly.
If he ogles over other women, it's pig-ish in my opinion for him to express this to you as if you were one of his buddies. But then again, this should be a clear sign that he has moved on and you two are now on separate pages. I am truly sorry that your emotions are being played with but it's time to get him to be independent and move along without your help. There should be no reason for you to be going through this right now, one day you'll find yourself a man who truly values you and doesn't use you after a break-up. Once a man is gone from your life if there are no children involved my personal opinion is that the string should be cut completely.
Good Luck to you, I know you were trying to help him but now it's time to help yourself.
Rosa
January 19, 2010 - 4:45amThis Comment
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