ok, so I talked to him and he said he really has been stressed out because of bills and work. I told him I wanted to talk about it to make sure there wasn't anything I did or didn't do to contribute to the situation. He said it wasn't anything I had done, he is just stressed. But I still don't understand how a man can go 2+ weeks without any intimacy. He said he goes through phases like any other human. (I must not be in that stage of life yet....because I have yet to go through that phase.) I'm kinda worried that the talk might have made him feel pressured and I don't want that. I'm not only worried about the sex, though others may think so. I just don't want to lose the intimacy in our relationship with it. If the talk leads to pity sex, I don't know how I will take it(emotionally). I want him to want to do it. Not feel like he has to in order to keep me happy.
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ok, so I talked to him and he said he really has been stressed out because of bills and work. I told him I wanted to talk about it to make sure there wasn't anything I did or didn't do to contribute to the situation. He said it wasn't anything I had done, he is just stressed. But I still don't understand how a man can go 2+ weeks without any intimacy. He said he goes through phases like any other human. (I must not be in that stage of life yet....because I have yet to go through that phase.) I'm kinda worried that the talk might have made him feel pressured and I don't want that. I'm not only worried about the sex, though others may think so. I just don't want to lose the intimacy in our relationship with it. If the talk leads to pity sex, I don't know how I will take it(emotionally). I want him to want to do it. Not feel like he has to in order to keep me happy.
January 23, 2010 - 7:16pmThis Comment
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