After 20 years, I am assuming you guys have had this conversation before? If so, do you know what keeps her from allowing you to please her?
Also, does she know that you turn to porn? How does she feel about it?
I do agree that a sex therapist may help you two out. It may help her realize that there is nothing wrong with allowing herself to get pleasure out of sex. I can honestly say that I would rather have my husband resort to porn than to go out and look for another woman to do what I won't. I don't agree that watching porn is cheating, it's a bit absurd to me to even compare the two-- so kudos to you for not going out of your relationship to fix your problems in the bedroom.
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Thank you Tom for sharing your side.
After 20 years, I am assuming you guys have had this conversation before? If so, do you know what keeps her from allowing you to please her?
Also, does she know that you turn to porn? How does she feel about it?
I do agree that a sex therapist may help you two out. It may help her realize that there is nothing wrong with allowing herself to get pleasure out of sex. I can honestly say that I would rather have my husband resort to porn than to go out and look for another woman to do what I won't. I don't agree that watching porn is cheating, it's a bit absurd to me to even compare the two-- so kudos to you for not going out of your relationship to fix your problems in the bedroom.
February 12, 2010 - 5:29amThis Comment
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