I'm glad that my response was helpful...I hope it was not too blunt?
I'm curious--have you had the deeper conversation with him, regarding the "why?". Have you let him know that by his choosing not to have sex, it makes you feel as though his love is slipping away? I think that is powerful...not used as manipulation, of course, but to let him know what it means to you. What can he do instead (and what can you do) as a couple to continue nurturing the love and affection in your relationship?
I hope to hear back from you, and wish you the best!
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I'm glad that my response was helpful...I hope it was not too blunt?
I'm curious--have you had the deeper conversation with him, regarding the "why?". Have you let him know that by his choosing not to have sex, it makes you feel as though his love is slipping away? I think that is powerful...not used as manipulation, of course, but to let him know what it means to you. What can he do instead (and what can you do) as a couple to continue nurturing the love and affection in your relationship?
I hope to hear back from you, and wish you the best!
February 14, 2010 - 8:59amThis Comment
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