My best friend constantly brags about her "sexbuddies" and her out of town visits with another of her "special friends". She and I are both single and not involved in a LTR. I broke up with my fiance in 2012 and, to be honest, have not had a sexual encounter since we split up. I don't want a sexbuddy or an occasional encounter out of town. I want a real relationship. I am a sexual person but it's just not what I want. I get tired of hearing her brag about it. I am happy for her (or used to be) if that is what SHE wants but I get tired of hearing it. It's almost like she is trying to make me feel jealousy or that there is something wrong with me for holding out for a meaningful, connected relationship with sex being a part of that. Am I being unreasonable???? We are both in our late 40's...........
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My best friend constantly brags about her "sexbuddies" and her out of town visits with another of her "special friends". She and I are both single and not involved in a LTR. I broke up with my fiance in 2012 and, to be honest, have not had a sexual encounter since we split up. I don't want a sexbuddy or an occasional encounter out of town. I want a real relationship. I am a sexual person but it's just not what I want. I get tired of hearing her brag about it. I am happy for her (or used to be) if that is what SHE wants but I get tired of hearing it. It's almost like she is trying to make me feel jealousy or that there is something wrong with me for holding out for a meaningful, connected relationship with sex being a part of that. Am I being unreasonable???? We are both in our late 40's...........
November 14, 2014 - 12:39pmThis Comment
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