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Thank you for your reply!

You're right I'm concerned about his addiction and our relationship.

Yes, I've tried talking to him. I tried to be very calm, open and understanding when I confront him. I don't accuse him. I ask 'What's this doing here?' He'll quickly reply with a lie and then deny that it's his. I'll try to affirm that I didn't ask if it's his or accuse him. I know he's lying so I just say, Ok and walk away because he lied. When I do that he says things such as, See you don't believe me. Then it all goes down from there. There's two sides to every story and I'm sure if he was to explain this he'd say I was snooping through his things to find things to accuse him of.

I don't think he lies to me about other things. However because he lies about the porn it makes me question what else he could be lying about.

Yes, we have a good, open and honest relationship. I just can't confront him about anything because it's too much of an accusation and he'll think I'm trying to find things to fault him on.

I can certainly understand where you mentioned his behavior. I can see that. I don't know if it's just my man but it's like he doesn't know he has a sense or responsibilities and priorites as a husband and father.

With couseling I've said, I'd like to try couseling because I think it'll help us understand each other and be able to communicate that. However he thinks couseling is a joke. Like it's just a person who likes listening and dealing with drama.

Thank you for asking questions to help clarify my situation!