I threatened to break up with him the last time he got drunk and he has stopped drinking I think I mightve gotten through to him on how much he hurt me. The thing is...he lives with me, I am only 20 and have not finished school so I live with my family. One time me and him got into a fight at his fathers place (when me and his father were on good terms) and his father told me not to leave him because he thinks he'll end up hurting himself and I would feel so guilty if anything happened. My boyfriend had a very tough life growing up his parents actually abused him so I don't know if when he would drink he'd have flashbacks or what. I feel like I keep making excuses for him but I believe people can change. He has not hurt me for a while now and has done really well controlling himself when he drinks. He used to drink until everything was a blur and that's when he'd hurt me but now he'll only have a beer or two. What I don't understand is why he won't even let me touch him in any sexual way. He says he's not cheating on me and that it upsets him because I think that but he is just not interested in having sex with me. When we do have sex like I said it will be 2-5 minutes and he just says it's because he's just not in the mood. All he does is go to work go to school two days out of the week and play video games. I don't know if I should just send him back to live with his father but everytime I mention it he thinks I'm breaking up with him. I know we're too young to be living with eachother he's been living with me a little before I turned 18. So I don't know if we should just see eachother a few days out of the week or what.
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I threatened to break up with him the last time he got drunk and he has stopped drinking I think I mightve gotten through to him on how much he hurt me. The thing is...he lives with me, I am only 20 and have not finished school so I live with my family. One time me and him got into a fight at his fathers place (when me and his father were on good terms) and his father told me not to leave him because he thinks he'll end up hurting himself and I would feel so guilty if anything happened. My boyfriend had a very tough life growing up his parents actually abused him so I don't know if when he would drink he'd have flashbacks or what. I feel like I keep making excuses for him but I believe people can change. He has not hurt me for a while now and has done really well controlling himself when he drinks. He used to drink until everything was a blur and that's when he'd hurt me but now he'll only have a beer or two. What I don't understand is why he won't even let me touch him in any sexual way. He says he's not cheating on me and that it upsets him because I think that but he is just not interested in having sex with me. When we do have sex like I said it will be 2-5 minutes and he just says it's because he's just not in the mood. All he does is go to work go to school two days out of the week and play video games. I don't know if I should just send him back to live with his father but everytime I mention it he thinks I'm breaking up with him. I know we're too young to be living with eachother he's been living with me a little before I turned 18. So I don't know if we should just see eachother a few days out of the week or what.
February 24, 2010 - 11:26amThis Comment
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