Sadly, porn and masturbation addiction in men is becoming a social problem of the new Millennium. They are beginning to enjoy it more than sex with real women as they feel it is less work and they get all the variety they want without all the effort.
If you want a happy relationship, you need to talk to your partner and let him know that you are not happy. Suggest counselling, if he is this reliant on porn and won't have sex with you. Isn't it interesting that anal sex is now so frequently on the menu. I believe that this is because of what men see in porn movies. Now they EXPECT anal intercourse, threesomes, etc.
You have to ask yourself if you are willing to live this way; if this is enough for you. If not, changes will have to be made. Either he bucks up and has some counselling if he needs it and listens to what you want in the relationship OR you have to consider if you need to leave him and look for someone who is interested in making you happy.
Sorry to be harsh.
By all means, he should be allowed to jerk off to his little heart's content, but he may be doing it sans girlfriend if you decide that this kind of a life isn't for you.
Maybe you can ask him to cut it out for just one week at first. If he has a hard time(no pun intended) doing this, then there is a problem.
Good luck.
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Sadly, porn and masturbation addiction in men is becoming a social problem of the new Millennium. They are beginning to enjoy it more than sex with real women as they feel it is less work and they get all the variety they want without all the effort.
March 1, 2010 - 4:15pmIf you want a happy relationship, you need to talk to your partner and let him know that you are not happy. Suggest counselling, if he is this reliant on porn and won't have sex with you. Isn't it interesting that anal sex is now so frequently on the menu. I believe that this is because of what men see in porn movies. Now they EXPECT anal intercourse, threesomes, etc.
You have to ask yourself if you are willing to live this way; if this is enough for you. If not, changes will have to be made. Either he bucks up and has some counselling if he needs it and listens to what you want in the relationship OR you have to consider if you need to leave him and look for someone who is interested in making you happy.
Sorry to be harsh.
By all means, he should be allowed to jerk off to his little heart's content, but he may be doing it sans girlfriend if you decide that this kind of a life isn't for you.
Maybe you can ask him to cut it out for just one week at first. If he has a hard time(no pun intended) doing this, then there is a problem.
Good luck.
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