Women and men have a completely different outlook on child birth. Women carry the child for 9 months and go through so many changes. Men are not so involved, so if he hasn't changed after the birth of your daughter, he may never change. Especially if he is young, as you mentioned.
I will tell you one thing I have learned, if you feel like something is going on, it probably is. The best advise I can offer you, try and be a great Mother to your daughter. If he comes and goes and 'acts a fool', at least she has you and thats the most important thing. You cannot control someone so don't waste your time thinking that you can. You will be exhausted.
How old is your daughter? Do you all live together?
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Hi again CT,
Women and men have a completely different outlook on child birth. Women carry the child for 9 months and go through so many changes. Men are not so involved, so if he hasn't changed after the birth of your daughter, he may never change. Especially if he is young, as you mentioned.
I will tell you one thing I have learned, if you feel like something is going on, it probably is. The best advise I can offer you, try and be a great Mother to your daughter. If he comes and goes and 'acts a fool', at least she has you and thats the most important thing. You cannot control someone so don't waste your time thinking that you can. You will be exhausted.
How old is your daughter? Do you all live together?
March 6, 2010 - 11:54amThis Comment
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