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Well to make it all even worse I found a secret phone this weekend that I have no idea who is paying for and how long he has had it. I found pictures and messages from several different people but most importantly I found out that he has still been comminicating with the same girl from last year. Now he says that he thinks he has feelings for her and that just doesn't want to do this anymore. First he told me sex then he said no sex that he only said that to get me to finally say okay lets file. I don't know what to believe. I asked himif he really thought that he wanted a life with her and he said I don't know and if he really thought that there was no way to fix our problems and that there was nothing left and he said I don't know. So have convinced him to go to counseling today to try and discuss some stuff before we do anything. Am I stupid and weak for even thinking of doing this? Do you really think that he could or would be honest with me again? This is not the man I married or that person that I fell in love with. I know I have said and done things and they haven't been great. But I know he is a good person inside and that we were good together once. And I think we could be good together again.