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Dear anonymous,
Thank you for your post, it really helped with my situation in which the guy didn't use a condom for the first time with me because he said he didn't like using them. After having sex with him three different times i started showing symptoms of trich, when i asked him about it he said i was the only girl he had been with for like three months which i just don't believe for a second. Hopefully this stuff clears up really fast so i can move on with life and not be obsessing over the guy who possibly gave me my first std and what it means. During the initial conversations he made me feel like i was over reacting to the whole thing since it was my first time without using a condom. I honestly thought he was being insensitive and a little naive for thinking he couldn't be a carrier just because he didn't show any symptoms. All in all lesson learnt "NO SEX WITHOUT CONDOMS". I wish there was a way to salvage the friendship because we were friends first then turned it into a 'with benefits' situation, but i think std scare is pretty hard to come back from. Oh well at least i learnt my lesson.