My boyfriend is the same way now. I am 19 and he is 22. We first had sex a year ago. I was a virgin. He had had sex one time prior to this. I am lucky to have sex one every month or two. I try to "pleasure" myself, but its gotten to the point that i am so ashamed to even become aroused because I feel it is wrong. He tells me that he just has no sexual drive and its true, I believe. He gets erections sometimes, but he never wants to go farther than a peck on the cheek. We have a wonderful relationship besides this, but it hurts so bad because he doesn't want me the way I want him. We are more best friends and room mates than anything. I am going to see a therapist tomorrow and hopefully it will help, but I have never felt so degraded as last week when he told me I needed to see a therapist because I wanted sex so much. I ask for it maybe one every two weeks. I just don't understand. I am 5'6 and 130 pds. I am not overweight. I am average looks. So is he. He isn't more attractive than me in any way. He doesnt want anybody sexually. It's just aggravating and he tells me that if I want to be with him I need to get over it.
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My boyfriend is the same way now. I am 19 and he is 22. We first had sex a year ago. I was a virgin. He had had sex one time prior to this. I am lucky to have sex one every month or two. I try to "pleasure" myself, but its gotten to the point that i am so ashamed to even become aroused because I feel it is wrong. He tells me that he just has no sexual drive and its true, I believe. He gets erections sometimes, but he never wants to go farther than a peck on the cheek. We have a wonderful relationship besides this, but it hurts so bad because he doesn't want me the way I want him. We are more best friends and room mates than anything. I am going to see a therapist tomorrow and hopefully it will help, but I have never felt so degraded as last week when he told me I needed to see a therapist because I wanted sex so much. I ask for it maybe one every two weeks. I just don't understand. I am 5'6 and 130 pds. I am not overweight. I am average looks. So is he. He isn't more attractive than me in any way. He doesnt want anybody sexually. It's just aggravating and he tells me that if I want to be with him I need to get over it.
April 13, 2010 - 12:16amThis Comment
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