To be honest I don't think it's about that, i know he had a lot of girlfriends before and he wasn't exactly a virgin when we got married. But he was raised that way that when u meet the girl you marry you don't 'disprespect or sully' her before the marriage and I was raised that way that you dont have sex before u're married.
He is under a lot of stress since we still havent found a place of our own and are living with his parents, he is currently considering leaving his job for another but isnt sure if it would be for the best or not. He is taking his responsablity as provider very seriously (I'm still in uni so he is the only one with the income)
He also has a lot on his mind due to stress in his family.
I understand that, but it still worries me that we lie in bed watching tv and not even hugging like an old couple or worse just friends!
I honestly dont know what to do, he says he loves me and that he is attracted to me, and says he'd have never married me otherwise. He sais he needs to be in the mood.
He also mocks me everytime i do something he considers is 'loveydovey' like caressing him, hugging or even kissing him to thank him for somethign he's done.
I'm a very affectionate person and would shower him with my affection if only he would let me..
I'll take a look at the thread and would apprechiate any advice.
thanks!
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Hi Susan,
thanks for your answer.
To be honest I don't think it's about that, i know he had a lot of girlfriends before and he wasn't exactly a virgin when we got married. But he was raised that way that when u meet the girl you marry you don't 'disprespect or sully' her before the marriage and I was raised that way that you dont have sex before u're married.
He is under a lot of stress since we still havent found a place of our own and are living with his parents, he is currently considering leaving his job for another but isnt sure if it would be for the best or not. He is taking his responsablity as provider very seriously (I'm still in uni so he is the only one with the income)
He also has a lot on his mind due to stress in his family.
I understand that, but it still worries me that we lie in bed watching tv and not even hugging like an old couple or worse just friends!
I honestly dont know what to do, he says he loves me and that he is attracted to me, and says he'd have never married me otherwise. He sais he needs to be in the mood.
He also mocks me everytime i do something he considers is 'loveydovey' like caressing him, hugging or even kissing him to thank him for somethign he's done.
I'm a very affectionate person and would shower him with my affection if only he would let me..
I'll take a look at the thread and would apprechiate any advice.
March 26, 2010 - 3:45pmthanks!
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