Okay so I'll be a bit more straight forward than others on this site, also providing information from a guy's point of view.
When it comes down to it, people in general have huge diferences on sexuality. I myself for example Love sex and masturbation. My finac'e on the other hand was brought into life on a better term. She never masturbates and chooses to have sex ony at meaningful times. I chose to respect that. We also live with my parents, so I know exactly what that is like. I personaly learned how to block voices out of my head to avoid loss of fun, if you know what I mean. My fianc'e on the other hand loves to be loud and enjoy the sounds we make, so the only time she is really in the mood is when we are 100% alone and ready to make love.
Look at it this way, sex is not a jar of candy, you can't just reach in and grab a piece when ever you want, You have to work towards it. Lose the wieght from the last piece you had earlyer. Or in better choice of words I am saying, find out what turns him on without touching him, if he likes it when you bend over or sit sexy on his desk with your legs crossed, then do it. Tease him a little and make him want you, then release your passion start with a kiss, turn that into a french kiss and drag your fingers from his ear to his chest then pull his shirt gently towards the bed, and by then I hope things lead to another.
If all else fails, try talking to him about wanting sex more and what might help him get into the mood for it. It takes two to tango. Have fun and be safe!
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Okay so I'll be a bit more straight forward than others on this site, also providing information from a guy's point of view.
When it comes down to it, people in general have huge diferences on sexuality. I myself for example Love sex and masturbation. My finac'e on the other hand was brought into life on a better term. She never masturbates and chooses to have sex ony at meaningful times. I chose to respect that. We also live with my parents, so I know exactly what that is like. I personaly learned how to block voices out of my head to avoid loss of fun, if you know what I mean. My fianc'e on the other hand loves to be loud and enjoy the sounds we make, so the only time she is really in the mood is when we are 100% alone and ready to make love.
Look at it this way, sex is not a jar of candy, you can't just reach in and grab a piece when ever you want, You have to work towards it. Lose the wieght from the last piece you had earlyer. Or in better choice of words I am saying, find out what turns him on without touching him, if he likes it when you bend over or sit sexy on his desk with your legs crossed, then do it. Tease him a little and make him want you, then release your passion start with a kiss, turn that into a french kiss and drag your fingers from his ear to his chest then pull his shirt gently towards the bed, and by then I hope things lead to another.
If all else fails, try talking to him about wanting sex more and what might help him get into the mood for it. It takes two to tango. Have fun and be safe!
Cody ~ Out.
March 29, 2010 - 12:42pmThis Comment
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