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Anon, let him know your life...your daily activities, schedule, plans....are going somewhere....he will catch on the great and beautiful wife he's got. Also be careful of thinking...the "i will be happy when we, when i, when he..." BECAUSE we can always make the best of our reality, you don't want to not enjoy your life with him just for this or that. I'M NOT minimizing your problems, I'm trying to tell you focuses on other areas, let him see this life together feels right and it's going to work out. Go back to the things that made you both commit to each other. Use your religion, friends and family to bring you both closer. I can't believe you married someone who doesn't like to cuddle! But hopefully he just feels like he can't even think about love-life because he's focused on getting you guys out of the place. Either way stay busy, focused, and very positive. Control your emotions. Don't say nasty things to him like, "I can't believe I married you."
Take care and always be happy, realize we are designed to keep setting goals, and better conditions for ourselves...but still we must learn to enjoy and make the best of our present life.