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This sounds very familiar to a problem on of my family members had when she got married. Although she was not a virgin when she met her husband in the 70's, it was still common to wait until marriage to have sex and that is what they agreed to do. While there was intimacy in the relationship during the engagement, it never went below the belt.

On their honeymoon his behavior was exactly what you are experiencing with your husband. She confronted him after a few nights and he told her that he had never achieved a full erection in his life and was permanently impotent. She was devastated, and I think he even offered to agree to an annulment if she so wished, but her nature was to love him for who he was and deal with the situation life had given her. So, she stayed faithfully married to him for 22 years, they adopted a son and just lived life.

When they finally got a divorce she let loose and indiscriminately fucked a lot of different men. I am sure she was also pretty upset when viagra was introduced on the market too. It's a pretty bleak ending to the story.

Either way, I'm not suggesting any of this as your husbands actual situation; but I am trying to make a few points.

1) If you and he made a promise to wait for marriage and now that you are married he refuses to fulfill the promise it is grounds for an an annulment. No costly divorce.

2) You should never be expected to decrease or suppress your sexual appetite towards the person you love, it's unnatural. So unless he can increase his sex drive, I'm afraid you are still looking at an irreconcilable difference in your marriage.

Despite how much you may love each other, this is a very serious problem.

April 21, 2010 - 3:56pm

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