Pat gave you some great advice and I agree-- you are not alone in this and have nothing to be embarrassed about.
I just wanted to clarify something: Are you hesitant to put anything or touch your vagina because you are not sure you want it there? Or is this fear caused by pain?
A professional can help you get through the fear of pain or hesitation but it is important to understand exactly what is causing you to not allow a finger, tampon, or speculum into your vagina. If you follow Pat's resources, please keep us posted on your progress-- we would love to hear about it!
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Dear Seltzy,
Pat gave you some great advice and I agree-- you are not alone in this and have nothing to be embarrassed about.
I just wanted to clarify something: Are you hesitant to put anything or touch your vagina because you are not sure you want it there? Or is this fear caused by pain?
A professional can help you get through the fear of pain or hesitation but it is important to understand exactly what is causing you to not allow a finger, tampon, or speculum into your vagina. If you follow Pat's resources, please keep us posted on your progress-- we would love to hear about it!
April 4, 2010 - 6:39amThis Comment
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