So are you saying you would rather not be a mother, wife etc at all??? Because that is where we would be. DEAD. Nice thing to wish on someone with little children and a husband. Some of us are just thankful to be alive.. But you're right.. sorry your sex life is not good and life is not the same for you. That is too bad. Make sure you make all the women feel like they are nothing without these parts. Let them know they may as well be dead. You should have something real in your life to worry about and maybe you would be thankful to be alive and not filled with cancer!