You say the first day of your last period was about 31 days ago, and you have a history of irregular periods and you have been using protection. The stress you are having can most definitely affect your cycle, and though you showered together it does not sound likely that you had sexual contact in a way that would cause pregnancy.
There is always a chance that you are pregnant because condoms are not perfect and neither are we, but it sounds like you are stressed out and often irregular and this is just another irregular cycle. I wouldn't worry too much until you are a couple of weeks late, because stress-induced weight loss tells me that you are really stressed out and if it is having an effect on your weight, it is having an effect on your entire body.
Try not to worry so much (I know, easy to say), get some regular activity, make sure you are eating and drinking enough, get plenty of rest, and give it a little time. I'm guessing once you can calm the stress down a bit, you will have your period.
We have lots of other women in your shoes here: https://www.empowher.com/condition/menstrual-cycle
Good luck and if we can be of further help, please let us know.
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Hi Jayjay86
You say the first day of your last period was about 31 days ago, and you have a history of irregular periods and you have been using protection. The stress you are having can most definitely affect your cycle, and though you showered together it does not sound likely that you had sexual contact in a way that would cause pregnancy.
There is always a chance that you are pregnant because condoms are not perfect and neither are we, but it sounds like you are stressed out and often irregular and this is just another irregular cycle. I wouldn't worry too much until you are a couple of weeks late, because stress-induced weight loss tells me that you are really stressed out and if it is having an effect on your weight, it is having an effect on your entire body.
Try not to worry so much (I know, easy to say), get some regular activity, make sure you are eating and drinking enough, get plenty of rest, and give it a little time. I'm guessing once you can calm the stress down a bit, you will have your period.
We have lots of other women in your shoes here: https://www.empowher.com/condition/menstrual-cycle
Good luck and if we can be of further help, please let us know.
April 21, 2010 - 7:54amThis Comment
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