Thanks for helping to raise awareness of this issue. I'm a guy who experiences this problem and wasn't aware that it was much of a concern for women. Well, that's why I check this website out from time to time, to reduce my ignorance. Anyway, the best thing I got out of this article is that often people can be so focused on themselves and worried about their own performance that they fail to realize that the other person might be just as worried about their own self-presentation. I don't mean this in the sense of 'misery loves company,' but more along the lines of taking comfort and insight from others experiencing the same problem.