Hi again Diane,
You talk about feeling more anxious when you are startled in some ways...I would like to explain my opinion,what I feel...Well,it depends,in my job,absolutely yes,if I'm prepared to answer a question or give an explanation about something which I had thought about previously,I feel fine...But in the personal sense,it does not work the same...If I'm with a friend,I know I will talk to him/her about my personal life,boyfriend,family,etc...When I hear the question:e.g "How are you doing with your boyfriend?" I begin to feel embarrased,(always when I'm in the mood for feeling embarrased,if,not,that's ok...) I start to panick about getting red,anxious,etc...and I have a really bad time...Just to give an example.
So planning what you are going to say,thinking about what questions you may be asked...it really helps me in my job as a teacher,but in the private sense...Not at all!
What do you thing of this?
THANKS,bye for now!
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Hi again Diane,
May 20, 2010 - 2:04amYou talk about feeling more anxious when you are startled in some ways...I would like to explain my opinion,what I feel...Well,it depends,in my job,absolutely yes,if I'm prepared to answer a question or give an explanation about something which I had thought about previously,I feel fine...But in the personal sense,it does not work the same...If I'm with a friend,I know I will talk to him/her about my personal life,boyfriend,family,etc...When I hear the question:e.g "How are you doing with your boyfriend?" I begin to feel embarrased,(always when I'm in the mood for feeling embarrased,if,not,that's ok...) I start to panick about getting red,anxious,etc...and I have a really bad time...Just to give an example.
So planning what you are going to say,thinking about what questions you may be asked...it really helps me in my job as a teacher,but in the private sense...Not at all!
What do you thing of this?
THANKS,bye for now!
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