I really find your comments helpful. I am in 2 years relationship with my boyfriend, the last time i remember having great sex with him was during our holiday in sri lanka and that was 10 months ago, he was dominating the bed and I keep on fantasising it every now and then. The problem is, it's been a while we never had sex. sometimes when he initiated it i am not in the mood but most of the time I am initiating it he felt pressured and can't perform well or stop having sex because he felt being pressured. I love him and we have great relationship together. I can even see myself being with him for the rest of my life. How can I make our sex life back to life without me feeling him the pressure and just enjoying it? btw, you are right, A good relationship is not worth throwing away over sex.