your story is similar to what is going on with my life. My husband either can't get an erection or when he does get it up he'll lose it during intercourse. We've been to 4 doctors who've all run tests and said it's nothing medical and that it's all in the head. We currently see a sex therapist/ couples therapist, but it's not working yet. He told me he feels like he has to have sex with me and that i am pressuring him. That statement hurt me alot since i am his wife and he should want to have sex with me. We used to have sex 1-3 times in a day, but it gradually decreased and now i am the one asking for sex...more like begging. Recently, I gave up in that department and am scared to even try to iniate it cause i dnt want to be accused of getting him to do something he doesn't feel like he wants to do or can't do. Eveything else in our relationship is fine and we are like best friends and rarely argue about things. He is 23 and I am 20. We both work, but even if i'm tired from my job i still find the energy to clean, make dinner, and clean again. I am very in love with him and am very attracted to him and find it hard to go a day without being affectionate and or intimate.
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your story is similar to what is going on with my life. My husband either can't get an erection or when he does get it up he'll lose it during intercourse. We've been to 4 doctors who've all run tests and said it's nothing medical and that it's all in the head. We currently see a sex therapist/ couples therapist, but it's not working yet. He told me he feels like he has to have sex with me and that i am pressuring him. That statement hurt me alot since i am his wife and he should want to have sex with me. We used to have sex 1-3 times in a day, but it gradually decreased and now i am the one asking for sex...more like begging. Recently, I gave up in that department and am scared to even try to iniate it cause i dnt want to be accused of getting him to do something he doesn't feel like he wants to do or can't do. Eveything else in our relationship is fine and we are like best friends and rarely argue about things. He is 23 and I am 20. We both work, but even if i'm tired from my job i still find the energy to clean, make dinner, and clean again. I am very in love with him and am very attracted to him and find it hard to go a day without being affectionate and or intimate.
May 7, 2010 - 11:59amThis Comment
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