Thank you for replying, One very important thing you both need to know is that this is not YOU. If you love your men, you will learn to please your needs while he is dealing with his issues.
I think April is doing a great thing by going to counseling since this may be an easier way for him to speak about his issues and/or lack of intimacy. Obviously, in both situations, there are great friendly relationships already established but are they still sexual also?
Both stories seem so familiar although there could be 10 different reasons for the low libido. Illegal drugs, prescription medication, stress, thinking there may be an issue 'down there', etc. are just to name a few.
Communication with your significant other is crucial here. Remember ladies that men want to feel like men, they love their egos. Now when you think about this, men are usually the ones that are begging for sex, right? Now, the role is reversed and he has the headache. When you ask, should I just leave him alone? The answer is no, BUT be mindful of his ego.
Talk, talk, talk....try to get them both communicating and understanding your needs although understanding his needs at the same time. Both men 23 and 32 are very young to possibly have erectile dysfunction problems. Do either one of you suspect drug use at all?
I am also wondering how involved your man is in this situation, Redpuma?
I would think that if his erections were being lost, he would want to find an answer as to why this was happening to him. Medically speaking that is just as April's boyfriend was checked for any issues.
I would love to keep this discussion open as you both try to find out a solution. Would you both mind keeping us updated? This is a common question with us. Good Luck!
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Hi Ladies,
Thank you for replying, One very important thing you both need to know is that this is not YOU. If you love your men, you will learn to please your needs while he is dealing with his issues.
I think April is doing a great thing by going to counseling since this may be an easier way for him to speak about his issues and/or lack of intimacy. Obviously, in both situations, there are great friendly relationships already established but are they still sexual also?
Both stories seem so familiar although there could be 10 different reasons for the low libido. Illegal drugs, prescription medication, stress, thinking there may be an issue 'down there', etc. are just to name a few.
Communication with your significant other is crucial here. Remember ladies that men want to feel like men, they love their egos. Now when you think about this, men are usually the ones that are begging for sex, right? Now, the role is reversed and he has the headache. When you ask, should I just leave him alone? The answer is no, BUT be mindful of his ego.
Talk, talk, talk....try to get them both communicating and understanding your needs although understanding his needs at the same time. Both men 23 and 32 are very young to possibly have erectile dysfunction problems. Do either one of you suspect drug use at all?
I am also wondering how involved your man is in this situation, Redpuma?
I would think that if his erections were being lost, he would want to find an answer as to why this was happening to him. Medically speaking that is just as April's boyfriend was checked for any issues.
I would love to keep this discussion open as you both try to find out a solution. Would you both mind keeping us updated? This is a common question with us. Good Luck!
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