Hi Anonymous-
I have answered this question before, believe it or not: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/how-can-we-find-girl-virgin-or-not.
My questions for you would be why do you not ask your girlfriend about this? She will know the answer. If you cannot ask her, because you feel uncomfortable or do not trust her to be honest, then you may want to rethink your relationship a bit. Honesty is the most important part of a relationship, and being able to ask an honest question and trust that you will get an honest answer are crucial. If you do not have this with your girlfriend, you may have a problem.
Sex lives are usually considered to be private. It would be preferable to ask her personally rather than find some independent way to verify her virginity. Thank you for writing.
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Hi Anonymous-
I have answered this question before, believe it or not: https://www.empowher.com/community/ask/how-can-we-find-girl-virgin-or-not.
My questions for you would be why do you not ask your girlfriend about this? She will know the answer. If you cannot ask her, because you feel uncomfortable or do not trust her to be honest, then you may want to rethink your relationship a bit. Honesty is the most important part of a relationship, and being able to ask an honest question and trust that you will get an honest answer are crucial. If you do not have this with your girlfriend, you may have a problem.
Sex lives are usually considered to be private. It would be preferable to ask her personally rather than find some independent way to verify her virginity. Thank you for writing.
May 21, 2010 - 10:20amThis Comment
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