Have you talked with him about your need to be physically intimate? (I assume you also want to be emotionally intimate...although your language use lends itself to sound like "all you want" is a quickie and then to be done with it, just to get your way).
If you are able to have an open, honest and healthy discussion with him, what does he say about his needs and wants? Is he feeling physically, emotionally, mentally close with you? Does he want the relationship to improve in these areas as well? If so...how does he think things can improve? If he thinks everything is fine the way it is, does he care that you have concerns? Is there room for compromise or a discussion about what you both want in the relationship?
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Have you talked with him about your need to be physically intimate? (I assume you also want to be emotionally intimate...although your language use lends itself to sound like "all you want" is a quickie and then to be done with it, just to get your way).
If you are able to have an open, honest and healthy discussion with him, what does he say about his needs and wants? Is he feeling physically, emotionally, mentally close with you? Does he want the relationship to improve in these areas as well? If so...how does he think things can improve? If he thinks everything is fine the way it is, does he care that you have concerns? Is there room for compromise or a discussion about what you both want in the relationship?
May 23, 2010 - 8:01pmThis Comment
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