I think it is great that you two are talking about sex, but am also a little nervous about HOW much he is comparing you with the other women he's been with. Everyone is different, and everyone is different with different people, so it's a little unnerving to me that he is wanting you to be like these other women in bed? I'm not sure why this is rubbing me the wrong way..is it you, too?
To answer your question directly, I couldn't say there is "one way" that any person expresses their sexuality with their partner each-and-every time. There are different moods, different positions, different motives for having intercourse depending on the day. Each of these differences would lend themselves to the woman being in a more "submissive" position, in a more "dominant" position...or some combination during the love-making process. I do wonder if he is wanting to try different positions throughout the one love-making session, instead of "only" doing one position the entire time? The other way to read your question: does he want you to be on top, and be in control while he lays there...is that what he means by moving more? Lastly...it sounds like his purpose of asking you to move more is so that you have an orgasm. Is this something you want? Why is he concerned about this, do you know?
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I think it is great that you two are talking about sex, but am also a little nervous about HOW much he is comparing you with the other women he's been with. Everyone is different, and everyone is different with different people, so it's a little unnerving to me that he is wanting you to be like these other women in bed? I'm not sure why this is rubbing me the wrong way..is it you, too?
To answer your question directly, I couldn't say there is "one way" that any person expresses their sexuality with their partner each-and-every time. There are different moods, different positions, different motives for having intercourse depending on the day. Each of these differences would lend themselves to the woman being in a more "submissive" position, in a more "dominant" position...or some combination during the love-making process. I do wonder if he is wanting to try different positions throughout the one love-making session, instead of "only" doing one position the entire time? The other way to read your question: does he want you to be on top, and be in control while he lays there...is that what he means by moving more? Lastly...it sounds like his purpose of asking you to move more is so that you have an orgasm. Is this something you want? Why is he concerned about this, do you know?
May 27, 2010 - 6:04pmThis Comment
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