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Hello Both, thanks for your advice Susan, i really appreciate it, i will definitely take your advice on cooling it with the marriage talk, i think it is wise to wait for him on this!

Hi Diane, well from when we last spoke he said he wanted some time off to just see what life would be like if we never met. He says he is happy that we are together (when we first met, dating was never on the agenda, we were just two mates hanging out, so it was a bit unexpected that we started dated) We are still boyfriend/girlfriend and he did say we are not dating other people. From what i think he means is that he wants to do his normal routine, go work, go out with mates, chill out, by himself. i don't know whether the relationship was getting too serious that he needed some time to step back and think. What confuses me is that he has re-assured me that we are fine but then why the need to want some time alone. We don't even live together, so we spend the weekends together, so its not even like i'm always in his pockets. Thanks for your time Diane!