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I know exactly how you feel, my fiancé and I have been together for 8 years off and on, we have 3 children together and our sexual intimacy hasn't always been distant... He's never told me that he wasn't sexually attracted to me, but his actions these past 2 years have spoken extremely louder than his words! He still has sex with me, but it feels as though his mind isn't focused on me at all. He keeps a distance from me before sex, like he completely avoids eye contact and avoids touching me at all cost... When I ask him about it, he gets upset and denies keeping his distance. I feel like he's fantasizing about another woman... I've done everything I can to get his attention but he just doesn't seem interested and all he can say is... "You know I love you" I'm hurt so very deeply because I don't understand what's going on andI know I'm attractive and sexy but if I'm not attractive and sexy in his eye's then nothing else matters... He gets satisfied sexually from me, but in his mind I'm a different woman so I feel used and not good enough. He can make himself orgasm just thinking about having sex with another woman... I've laid next to him while he's thought so deeplyabout another woman that he nut all over himself and all I could do was lay there and cry silently.