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Hi I have read your story. Im married for 26 years. 46 years old and attractive. Exactly the same happened to me. Sex comes from the mind men or women. The advise i can suggest. Never think it is you or the problem is you. The problem lies with your husband. What he did was exciting for him and that gave his ego a great boost. Always remember that. Firstly get yourself going girl. Start gyming put on music. Go Out with a lady friend at least once a week. Get your house exciting. But first of all get him wondering what the helll..... you need to look after yourself start laughing again and push everything that happened aside. An emotional affair is much stronger for a man than a sexual one. But you still have your husband and be honest. What he did has nothing to do with you keep and work on your self he will notice I promise. Dont ask for any thing. Just put the atmosphere there. He will notice and it will take time. For now just be a friend to him. Concentrate on the small things something that small to eat at work surprise him. Find the sexiness firstly in yourself again. I know what he told you but that was his defense. He was wrong