The context of which he said my weight was a problem...
We were laying in bed after we said goodnight and he rolled over to sleep and I started to get upset after yet again he didnt try to have sex with me after he made promises to the two night previous. He told me, 'now if you want sex tonight we cant stay out late or something to that effect and if we do then you have no one to blame but yourself'. So I choose sex over anything and make sure to comply with what he's saying so that I dont get upset and 'have myself to blame'. After he rolled over I said something but dont remember what and then it started with his empty promises of sex and I was teary eyed and he said you want to know the truth and i said yes. He said he didnt want to hurt me but my weight is a problem for him, more or less. I said it explained alot and cried. Like I said before though I know he has been with way larger woman then me. I think he is the one who may have some problems and is pawning them off on me because I am pretty much the same as when we met. He has always seemed to have a low sex drive. As far as him knowing how deeply it hurt me he has to know because he left me cry and tell him that he didnt need to worry because I wouldnt WANT him anymore. Like I said he seems to be fine with it because he is acting like everything is hunky dorey. He even stopped by my place after he got off work tonight for a min and I tookt he time to 'freshin' up just in case and he didnt try anything, so still no sex.
As afr as other affection non intimate, we do hold hands and hug and cuddle... kiss ( pecks, not too much tounge action).
The feeling I get from what he wants out of a sex life with me is pure nothing. I dont think he wants sex with me at all.
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Well i will try to answer everything you asked.
The context of which he said my weight was a problem...
We were laying in bed after we said goodnight and he rolled over to sleep and I started to get upset after yet again he didnt try to have sex with me after he made promises to the two night previous. He told me, 'now if you want sex tonight we cant stay out late or something to that effect and if we do then you have no one to blame but yourself'. So I choose sex over anything and make sure to comply with what he's saying so that I dont get upset and 'have myself to blame'. After he rolled over I said something but dont remember what and then it started with his empty promises of sex and I was teary eyed and he said you want to know the truth and i said yes. He said he didnt want to hurt me but my weight is a problem for him, more or less. I said it explained alot and cried. Like I said before though I know he has been with way larger woman then me. I think he is the one who may have some problems and is pawning them off on me because I am pretty much the same as when we met. He has always seemed to have a low sex drive. As far as him knowing how deeply it hurt me he has to know because he left me cry and tell him that he didnt need to worry because I wouldnt WANT him anymore. Like I said he seems to be fine with it because he is acting like everything is hunky dorey. He even stopped by my place after he got off work tonight for a min and I tookt he time to 'freshin' up just in case and he didnt try anything, so still no sex.
As afr as other affection non intimate, we do hold hands and hug and cuddle... kiss ( pecks, not too much tounge action).
The feeling I get from what he wants out of a sex life with me is pure nothing. I dont think he wants sex with me at all.
June 1, 2010 - 10:08pmThis Comment
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