Hi honey. Wow, that's a lot for you to take in. You hit the nail on the head when you said you love him and want to have sex with him despite his flaws and it is easy for you to forget they even exist. I'm not a professional but I have been married to my husband for 5 years and I will tell you we had a lot of sex when we first met but after a while things started to slow down a lot. At first I thought it was me but than I realized we were finally that comfortable with each other. Now I think that when men are in a long relationship (marriage/long term dating) they tend to forget that women need to know their man still finds them sexually attractive. The other thing is the age. You said your boyfriend is 30. My hubby is 35 and I have to tell you in my PERSONAL opinion they are starting to slow donw while we (you are 26, I'm 29) are just getting started. I would have a serious talk with him about his comment though. If he is trying to put some kind of blame on you that's just wrong and so childish. If he's just not interested anymore and wants to move one he needs to man up and tell you, but if he has his own insecurities than he needs to let you know that as well. I hope I helped a little. Keep your head up doll.
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Hi honey. Wow, that's a lot for you to take in. You hit the nail on the head when you said you love him and want to have sex with him despite his flaws and it is easy for you to forget they even exist. I'm not a professional but I have been married to my husband for 5 years and I will tell you we had a lot of sex when we first met but after a while things started to slow down a lot. At first I thought it was me but than I realized we were finally that comfortable with each other. Now I think that when men are in a long relationship (marriage/long term dating) they tend to forget that women need to know their man still finds them sexually attractive. The other thing is the age. You said your boyfriend is 30. My hubby is 35 and I have to tell you in my PERSONAL opinion they are starting to slow donw while we (you are 26, I'm 29) are just getting started. I would have a serious talk with him about his comment though. If he is trying to put some kind of blame on you that's just wrong and so childish. If he's just not interested anymore and wants to move one he needs to man up and tell you, but if he has his own insecurities than he needs to let you know that as well. I hope I helped a little. Keep your head up doll.
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