Hey there! So I am in a shockingly similar situation to you! Even waiting until marriage but not always great at avoiding the other stuff. I'm not in any birth control, nor do we use condoms when fooling around. In the past I've been a little too paranoid when my period was late even without having sex. So this month when my period didn't show up in time I wasn't even worried, I was just enjoying the bonus week without it! It didn't even occur to me to consider pregnancy until I was nauseous for 2 days straight and my roommate jokingly said "you're not pregnant are you?" I laughed and said "Nope!" Thinking I was totally in the clear. But then the next day the nausea continued I noticed other signs as well - increased breast, tender nipples, more that usual clear discharge, head aches, etc. Well... I decided I wasn't going to freak out this time and I wasn't going to tell my boyfriend unless I was 100% positive because it just causes him unnecessary worry. At this point I was a full week late. And then more I thought about the past month the more I realized how many times we had been pretty careless and very close. Including one night when I was drunk and not paying close attention to proximity. I decided I would just take a pregnancy test and take away the geuss work! But Unfortunately the test wasn't that clear... it wasnt an obvious negative with absolutely no vertical line, but the supposed positive line wasn't that dark or thick either. It was a ept blue dye test. So I tested again yesterday at 10 days late (for the most part I have typical 30 day cycle) and AGAIN the test wasn't clearly yes or no!! This time used a pink dye test. And I don't want to misread a possible evaporation line even though it showed up within the 2 minute time frame. Im sooo confused! On one hand I understand just how slight the chances really are, on the other hand my boobs have never been this big and my period has never been this late! And I really would just like a definitive yes or no from a hpt!
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Hey there! So I am in a shockingly similar situation to you! Even waiting until marriage but not always great at avoiding the other stuff. I'm not in any birth control, nor do we use condoms when fooling around. In the past I've been a little too paranoid when my period was late even without having sex. So this month when my period didn't show up in time I wasn't even worried, I was just enjoying the bonus week without it! It didn't even occur to me to consider pregnancy until I was nauseous for 2 days straight and my roommate jokingly said "you're not pregnant are you?" I laughed and said "Nope!" Thinking I was totally in the clear. But then the next day the nausea continued I noticed other signs as well - increased breast, tender nipples, more that usual clear discharge, head aches, etc. Well... I decided I wasn't going to freak out this time and I wasn't going to tell my boyfriend unless I was 100% positive because it just causes him unnecessary worry. At this point I was a full week late. And then more I thought about the past month the more I realized how many times we had been pretty careless and very close. Including one night when I was drunk and not paying close attention to proximity. I decided I would just take a pregnancy test and take away the geuss work! But Unfortunately the test wasn't that clear... it wasnt an obvious negative with absolutely no vertical line, but the supposed positive line wasn't that dark or thick either. It was a ept blue dye test. So I tested again yesterday at 10 days late (for the most part I have typical 30 day cycle) and AGAIN the test wasn't clearly yes or no!! This time used a pink dye test. And I don't want to misread a possible evaporation line even though it showed up within the 2 minute time frame. Im sooo confused! On one hand I understand just how slight the chances really are, on the other hand my boobs have never been this big and my period has never been this late! And I really would just like a definitive yes or no from a hpt!
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